Mine also leaks a bit at the head pipe/ can connection but I have still only very minor popping on decel and I've done nothing to the pipe at the head connection. I'd say to drop your Main jet size first to around 170 and see what that does. If you're throwing flames, it's because you've got too much fuel. Also, make sure to adjust your fuel screw properly. A well tuned carb can help reduce the popping on decel as I've found out. Might need a bit more fuel at idle to 1/4 throttle position.
For reference, I'm running stock exhaust with intake mods, a 162 mj, 42 pj, with fuel screw at 2.75 turns out. Elevation 1200ft- Runs far better than with the 162 than the 170 mj
Cheers!